November 18, 2009

What’s Up With That? Wednesday

Well, I’ve missed a few Wednesdays, but here goes.

1. What’s up with MSN’s new homepage? I do not like it.

2. What’s up with my kids thinking that hitting each other is ok? GRRR!

3. What’s up with this weather-can it just stay cold already!?

4. What’s up with the Government not listening to it’s people? We DO NOT want a new health care system! Perhaps there are changes that need to be made with the current system, but fix it, don’t break it completely!

I had a 5th one, but I am not in the greatest mood currently, so I will save that topic for another day. It just won’t come out politely if I write it now.

November 11, 2009

Meet and Greet….in Heaven!

You know, one day I was thinking about some of my favorite Christian personalities, artists, and such and how I would love to meet them some day. Then the thought hit me. I WILL get to meet them one day! How awesome is that? There are people I want to sing with someday in a Heavenly choir! I sure hope there aren’t tryouts, I will undoubtedly fail to make that impressive cut. Especially if I go right after someone like Sandi Patty. Talk about pressure.

Speaking of Sandi Patty, that’s another thought I had. My sweet friend Michelle who also loves to sing and has a lovely voice, really likes Sandi Patty. I was thinking one day that she will get to sing with Sandi someday too! Isn’t that something fun to look forward to!?

So, here’s my list of people I look forward to meeting and seeing again when I get to Heaven. What about you? Or who do you hope/wish would be there but maybe they have not trusted the Lord yet in their life? Only God knows the hearts of men but it’s not real hard to guess where people’s hearts are a good portion of the time.

My List

1. My Saviour, Jesus

2. My Dad, Allen

3. My Grandparents from my side and Jeremy’s

4. I realllllly hope Bill Cosby is there. He is someone I really want to meet.

5. I want to sing with all of the fabulous singers on Christian Radio today-really, any of them I would be honored to meet or sing with.

6. I hope George Strait is there. Cowboy hat optional.

7. Dennis Miller-every time I watch him on Fox News, I think, “man, he would be such an awesome voice for Christianity today if he was a believer!” His humor is cynical but I do find it funny.

8.Esther-I want to hear her side of the story.

9.Paul-I want to thank him for being an inspiration and example in the midst of physical affliction and suffering.

This list is not exhaustive and could be a mile long if I kept going. I do not look forward to the actual “death part.” I am very curious about this place called Heaven though. I don’t think our human minds can fathom how wonderful it will be.

“Death is not our destination. Death is part of our destiny.” -Beth Moore’s version.

Death is a certain part of our story, but it’s not the end of our story-My version.

November 9, 2009

Christmas Miracles

Award-winning writer Cecil Murphey is the author or co-author of 114 published books, including the NY Times bestseller 90 Minutes in Heaven (with Don Piper) and Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson Story (with Dr. Ben Carson). He’s also the author of When Someone You Love Has Cancer and When God Turned Off the Lights, both 2009 releases. Murphey’s books have sold millions and have given hope and encouragement to countless readers around the world. For more information, visit www.cecilmurphey.com. (Atlanta, GA) Many ordinary people experience Christmas miracles—those special moments during the season of giving and receiving when Christmas becomes more than just a holiday. In Christmas Miracles (St. Martin’s Press, October 2009), Cecil Murphey and Marley Gibson share the stories of those who have recognized the special moments that transcend daily experience and transform their lives.

In these stories, people overcome desperate situations through a miraculous twist of fate—all during the most wonderful time of the year. A young boy sits down to read a Christmas book and discovers that his learning disability has vanished. A woman stranded in a blizzard is rescued by a mysterious stranger who she suspects is an angel. And a woman living far from home gets an answer to her prayer in the form of an unexpected gift.

 

Bestselling author Cecil Murphey says, “We all face discouraging times, whether it’s the lack of money, being stuck on a road in a snowstorm, feeling stress, or being hungry and homeless. But God’s help is available. I want readers to see that miracles do happen—sometimes simple, unexpected blessings or those that involve the supernatural. We start by asking, and in strange and wonderful ways God tiptoes into our dark nights; we experience renewed joy in life and witness God in action through people and unexpected events.”

 

Interview with Cecil “Cec” Murphey

by Marley Gibson

Co-authors of Christmas Miracles, from St. Martin’s Press

I am extremely privileged to have the opportunity today to talk to my friend and co-author, Cecil “Cec” Murphey, and to chat about our upcoming book, Christmas Miracles.

Marley:  Cec, thanks for spending some time with me today.

Cec:    Marley, it’s great that you could take time away from important things like making a living to spend a little time with me.

Marley:  I’m so jazzed about our Christmas Miracles book that’s coming out soon. I’ve had a lot of questions from folks wanting to know how we met, what brought us together, etc. So, I thought we’d do a back and forth on how it all came to be. Of course, I have to give props to our amazing agent and friend, Deidre Knight, for bringing us together. For those of you who don’t know, Cec co-authored the runaway New York Times bestselling hit 90 Minutes in Heaven with Don Piper.

Cec: I have to say thanks to Deidre Knight as well. Between Deidre and my assistant, Twila Belk, I’ve been able to sell quite a few books. 90 Minutes in Heaven has been my big book. I’m also proud of a book I wrote in 1990 called Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson Story. The book has never been out of print and has hit close to four million in sales. Early this year, Cuba Gooding Jr. starred in the made-for-TV film version.

Marley: That’s amazing! You are truly prophetic and definitely “the man behind the words.” Now, people ask how we teamed up. Sadly, there was a personal tragedy that brought Cec and me together as friends.

Cec: True. In early 2007, our house burned and our son-in-law died. Aside from the grief over Alan, we lost everything. Deidre and Jan, my-then-assistant, sent the word out of our tragedy without telling me. I’m immensely grateful for every gift people sent, but I probably wouldn’t have admitted I needed help and wouldn’t have asked. They taught me how much we need other people.

Marley: Deidre put out a call to other clients of The Knight Agency, to help Cec and his family out in any way in their time of need. At the time, my company was moving and we were cleaning house. We had a ton of office supplies that we were either going to throw away or give to some of the charities the company worked with.  I got my boss’ permission to send a large care package to Cec…full of office supplies for him to re-stock his writer’s office. You name it…post-its, staples, paper clips, pens, pencils, markers, white out, ruler, scissors, paper, notebooks, notepads, envelopes, a laptop case, tape, glue, folders, binder clips…etc. A veritable potpourri of office delights.  I was hoping that it would help Cec have a sense of getting his office back so he could keep working.

Cec: Marley’s gift was the most unexpected I received. We hadn’t met, although Deidre Knight had spoken of her many times and kept telling me she was wonderful. I wonder if you can imagine what it was like for me to open that box from someone I didn’t know. I saw all those practical things for my office and yelled for my wife.  I felt as if I were reading a first-grade book. “Look! Look and see! Oh, look!” I was overwhelmed by the gift and even more to receive it from a stranger. Those supplies were the most practical gift anyone could have given me. I’m still using black paper clips and red folders from Marley.

Marley: Awww…thanks, Cec! I didn’t have to think twice about doing it. Writing is such a solitary “sport,” but the writing community always astounds me with how they help their own.  Not long after that, over plates of spinach and Gouda omelets, Deidre introduced me to Cec in person and I was thrilled to finally meet the man behind the words. Deidre knew we needed to work on a project together and thus began our brainstorming. What did you think of that first meeting, Cec, and cooking up the idea to work together?

Cec: Deidre and I had already spoken about a Christmas book and I had some idea about what it should contain, but nothing had come together. One day Deidre told me that Marley was coming to visit her and she wanted us to work together on a Christmas project. Marley and I talked before we ate and again during the meal. Everything felt right to me. I knew my strengths and Marley knew hers (and Deidre knew both of us). Everything clicked. Marley, a far better networker than I am, immediately sent out the word for submissions. Within days she had almost four times more than we could use. (She read every one of them!)

Marley: I was truly impressed with the submissions we received and it was hard narrowing it down to the ones we chose for the book. We’re fortunate to have such a go-getter agent in Deidre Knight. Cec, can you share how the whole idea of Christmas Miracles came about and what you thought of the project originally?

Cec: For me, it actually started while I was on the rapid-rail train from the Atlanta airport when I listened to teens talk about Christmas and it was mostly about gifts. I had the idea then, but nothing really came together. Months later when Deidre I and had a meeting, she brought up the idea of a compilation and mentioned my working with Marley. I’ve been Deidre Knight’s client since 1997 and I’ve learned to listen carefully when she comes up with an idea. I said yes before she gave me all the information.

Marley: That’s the truth about Deidre! Getting back to those submissions, I want to say we got more than two hundred submissions for Christmas Miracles. So many wonderful stories to read through and select for the book. It was a challenge to pick and choose which ones were right for the book, but I loved every minute of it. After I chose the entries that would go into the book, Cec toiled long hours editing the works for a unified voice. What was the biggest challenge you found in the editing process, Cec?

Cec: I’ve been a ghostwriter and collaborator for twenty-plus years and this was a switch to give the book a unified voice—which was mine. It would have been easier to stay with each writer’s voice, but the book—like many compilations—would have been uneven in tone and quality. When I discussed this via email with our delightful editor, Rose Hilliard, she was (to my surprise) familiar with my work. She told me she liked the warm tone of my writing and that I don’t waste words. “That’s the voice we want,” she said. It still wasn’t easy, but it was an exciting challenge. After Marley and I agreed on the stories and gave them that unified voice, our editor pulled six contributions. Although different, Rose felt they were too similar to other stories.

Marley: Can you give our readers a preview of the book? A favorite story perhaps…or one that moved you to tears?  (I have to say the little boy who wished for nothing but to be able to read a book all the way through because of his stutter had me bawling when I read the submission.)

Cec: That’s not fair! I liked them all. The one that touched me most, however, is the last story in the book, “Sean’s Question.” We had almost finished the book and I was teaching at a conference in Florida. I felt we needed one strong story at the end. Despite all the good ones, I didn’t feel fully satisfied to conclude the book. On the last day of the conference, I met a conferee named Sara Zinn for a consultation. As we talked, I mentioned Christmas Miracles and that I still needed one more story. “I have a Christmas story,” she said and told me about Sean. As I listened, tears filled my eyes—but, being the macho type I am, I was sure it was an allergy. Sara wrote the story, and it became the one I sought.

Marley: Oh yes…that one is an emotional one all right. It was meant to be in the book because of how you met at the conference. Now, you and I have both had challenges in our lives that others might have found too much to take, but we are both very strong in our faith and our relationship with God. How do you think Christmas Miracles is going to help others feel closer to God and experience His miracles in their own lives?

Cec: Awareness and appreciation are the two things I want readers to grasp. Awareness means for them to realize that they’re never totally alone in life. Those unexpected, out-of-the-ordinary events remind us of that. Appreciation means to be thankful for what we already have. Too often, and especially at Christmas, we focus on what we’d like or what is supposed to make us happy. Christmas Miracles gently reminds readers of both.

Marley: In this day and age when our country is fighting two wars, unemployment is high, and a lot of people have a lack of hope and faith for their future, what do you want readers of the book to take away from Christmas Miracles and how can the stories in our book help provide comfort to those struggling?

Cec: I want readers to see that miracles do happen—sometimes simple, unexpected blessings or those that involve the supernatural (as in one of Marley’s stories). I call myself a serious Christian. For me, the world’s greatest miracle began with the birth of Jesus. Regardless of a person’s religion, this book encourages readers to think about life during the Christmas season and see that life as more than gifts and celebrations. It’s also a reminder that God loves us and hears our needy cries.

Marley: Beautifully put, Cec, and I couldn’t agree with you more. Can we share what’s next after Christmas Miracles? J

Cec: Why it’s the Cec and Marley show, of course. Because of our go-getter agent and our enthusiastic editor, we’ve already received thumbs up for The Christmas Spirit. This will be stories of people who express the true spirit of Christmas by acts of love and kindness, for release in the fall of 2011.

Marley: And I can’t wait to start working on that project!  Thank you so much for your time, Cec, and answering my questions. It was a privilege and honor to work with you and I look forward to our future projects together. You’ve helped me along during a trying time and I appreciate your friendship and support.

Cec: I liked this project because Marley had to send out the word, collect submissions, read them, and discard the weaker ones. I get to see only the better-written stories. (Don’t tell her that I have the better job.) Although I mentioned only one story, all of those in the book touched me because of the poignancy of their situations and the miraculous answers. I won’t say the stories increased my faith, but they increased my appreciation for the delightful mix of human need and divine intervention.

Marley: Thanks again, Cec! God Bless! And to our readers, please be sure to pick up a copy of CHRISTMAS MIRACLES, out October 13, 2009 from St. Martin’s Press. It’s a great stocking stuffer or gift basket filler. We hope you, too, will discover your own Christmas Miracles in your life.

Marley Gibson is a young adult author whose first published books in the Sorority 101 series were released by Penguin Group in 2008 under the pen name of Kate Harmon. She has a new Ghost Huntress series with Houghton Mifflin written under her own name. She can be found online at www.marleygibson.com.

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October 29, 2009

I’m just gonna say this.

Alright, buckle up, it’s gonna be a bumpy blog ride.

When on earth are we going to realize that church is not about us? It’s about GOD and serving GOD. What is the driving force behind us getting up early on Sunday mornings, getting our family ready and heading out the door? Are we going because, “it’s the thing to do on a Sunday?” Are we going to make sure we make an “appearance?” Or maybe we just want to keep the Pastor and the staff from coming and knocking on our door when we haven’t been in a few weeks.

There are times when it is easy to get caught up in the agenda of the morning and we have much to prepare for. We get so busy being busy that we completely miss the reason we are there. I am just as guilty of that as anyone some Sundays.  We can get so focused on the what and forget the who.

Let me go one further. Why do we let another fallible, human being stop us from serving a wonderful, holy God? How do we get to where our faith and service is conditional upon another person’s actions or decisions? Can I just say that this sort of thing in a church just tears it apart at the seams. That is exactly what the Enemy wants.

If I had the inclination to leave the church because of something another member had said or done, then I might have left years ago. There have been things that I didn’t like or agree with and things I didn’t take the right way, but I got over it. We can’t hold onto bitterness. I don’t think there is a church anywhere that gets along perfectly 100% of the time. Maybe it’s because it’s made up of sinners? Just a guess.

Do we realize that we are only responsible for our own actions? If another person makes a decision that we may or may not like or agree with, then they will have to answer to the Lord for it. Once again, it’s all about Him. Who are we serving?

It’s almost like we have this casual attitude about church anymore. “Sally Jo looked at me the wrong way so I’m not gonna attend this church anymore.”  Or what about, “I didn’t get the solo I wanted in choir so I’m just gonna stop singing.” It’s not like switching grocery stores, folks.

Now hang with me a second. Before you tell me to get off of my high horse, please understand one thing. I’ve been there too. I have had plenty of times when I thought, “Oh, old so-and-so, well their gonna get their way because of who they are or because they have achieved some sort of status.” Then I had to realize that there is just no place for that in the church. We must keep serving the Lord. We are not there to fight over who gets to start this ministry or that, or who made Deacon, or who is teaching a class. Rubbish.

Is it not time to pull up our big-girl pants and big-boy pants and just get to the business of serving the Lord? Let’s stop worrying about the so-called injustices we feel have been perpetrated against us, because in the grand scheme of things, they don’t matter. There are souls that need saving and they need you and me to reach out and love them to our Heavenly Father.

Let’s go to work. Together.

October 13, 2009

“O Tamiflu, O Tamiflu….

oh how I’m thankful for you.” (to the tune of “O Christmas Tree”)

Really, that Tamiflu stuff is the bomb diggity. Friday I was not feeling my normal self, and I felt like I had the beginning of a sinus infection or maybe strep, so I decided to head to the clinic. We have to go out of town for a family thing this next weekend and I am supposed to sing two songs on Sunday and I didn’t wanna take any chances. Upon arrival I was immediately given a mask due to the fever I possessed and waited patiently to be sent back to wait some more. The lady put “poss. flu” at the top of my patient form and I literally snickered because I thought, “I don’t have any aches, or a high fever, or any of the normal symptoms.” Well, after the nurse gets my vitals, she sends me back for a flu test. Yeah, not fun. And you could have  knocked me over with a feather when the result came back positive for Influenza Type A. I was dumbfounded.

So I go back to the room and the doc said we caught it very early, and was actually pretty concerned for my kids. He ordered me to go get and take a double dose of Tamiflu and I ordered myself to quarantine in my bedroom. I didn’t have the aches, tummy problems or anything, so for me, I lucked out. I never even felt real sick. My throat is clear as of tonight and I can even sing halfway decently. Glory to God for this going down so quickly!

While quarantined, I figured out a few things:

There is too much reality tv on tv.

There is hardly anything worth watching on the weekends.

I really like watching the TLC show “Say Yes to the Dress.” It blows my mind that people spend that much money on a wedding gown, but hey, it’s their debt not mine.

You can miss your kids while under the same roof. That’s a different kind of lonely.

They miss you too and it makes you thankful they haven’t forgotten you.

In a quiet house, it’s just you and God and it allows you to hear much clearer. I was just talking to him Saturday and telling him how worried I was that if Jeremy got the flu and had to miss work that he only had 10 hours left paid to take off and that if he had to take off more we’d be in financial trouble. IMMEDIATELY after telling God this, here is what the Holy Spirit said: “My God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” Phil. 4:19

I haven’t worried since.

I am so thankful for the rest I had this weekend. It was far from a perfect vacation, but it was nice to just have some time alone and rest.  God knows that’s what we need. We need to just sloooow down sometimes.

God’s timing is perfect.

October 5, 2009

So thankful…

I just thought I’d make a list of some things I am thankful for in recent days/weeks/months. Making a list sometimes helps us see that we truly are blessed beyond measure. I don’t deserve the least of God’s blessings, for I am entitled to nothing. I am so thankful that God wants to bless me, despite me.

Thankful for yesterdays song service at church. There are so many talented musicians and vocalists at Central and that was proven yesterday!

Thankful for new friends and new ministries….God never ceases to amaze me.

Thankful for a church that doesn’t compromise TRUTH.

Thankful that my Mom is feeling better and hasn’t been admitted to the hospital for nearly having pneumonia.

Thankful that bedtime with the kids is going much smoother lately!

Thankful for a home, two paid-for, running vehicles, Jeremy’s job, our health, our family, food, clothing, health insurance (especially this year!)……the list could go on and on. I never want to take a single one of these for granted.

October 1, 2009

What’s Up With That Wednesday

So I had this idea in the middle of the stinkin’ night the other night, to make Wednesdays’ posts all about things that I just don’t get or understand. So I thought it appropriate to title the post, “What’s Up With That Wednesdays.”

So here goes-and this is random and in no particular order of annoyance-

What’s up with men and watching UFC Fighting? I just don’t get what is appealing about watching two grown men beat each other up. Sheesh.

What’s up with the President wanting to extend the school days for children in public schools? You think we have a teacher shortage now….

What’s up with that Lady Ga-Ga person? Really, there are no words.

What’s up with the Jon and Kate Plus 8 stuff? I mean come on, is anyone thinking about the “Plus 8″ part of this situation???

What’s up with my 3 year old son not going to the potty unless I go with him? Every other human with an XY chromosone in this house goes alone…

As random as these thoughts may be, they have truly had me wondering at one time or another.

If anyone can figure out the deal with that Lady Ga-Ga person, let me know….or am I the only one who thinks  she needs to go on “What Not To Wear?”

September 29, 2009

Eight arms?

I was thinking back to something that came up at our first mom’s meeting a couple weeks ago, and thought it was worth mentioning on here. We were discussing how God gave spiders eight legs, and how we as moms only have two arms and two legs.

Well, the more I think about it, I am thinking that He did that for a reason. I mean, God always has a reason, right? Possibly, if we had all these extra appendages, we would find more and more ways to keep working and not take the time we need to rest. He says, “Be still and know that I am God.”

The next time I feel extremely overwhelmed, which seems to be quite often lately, I’ll try to stop and remember to “be still.” Dishes can wait, my kids can’t. Forget facebook, leave the laundry, brush away the broom, and just be still. I need to stop and count my blessings.  Family, friends, health, home, vehicles, ability to work….the list is infinite.

Be still and know that he is God.

September 20, 2009

FINALLY!

Long story short, I had tried to upload the photos from the kids’ first day of school on Sept. 8, but for whatever reason my camera would not cooperate! So, without further ado, I will post pics of our homeschool book case, which I got at Target and LOVE, and the first day!!!

Bookshelf with each kid's curriculum and supplies. Each kid has a dry-erase board where I write each day's assignments for each one. It works wonderfully!

Re-organized homeschool closet!

Basket o'books!

I set these out the night before the twin's first day of pre-school. Can you guess which backpack belongs to which twin???

My babies!

Me and my twinkies, as I call 'em! My ducklings

So, we are off to a wonderful start to our school year. I knew I had to be more organized this year and it has proven to be most helpful. One of my favorite sayings is, “if you fail to plan, plan to fail.” Not because I always live that way, but it reminds me that I really need to have a plan in place if I want things in my life to go smooth. If I want to have an awesome day,  I need to plan to spend time with my Lord in the morning before I get started in my day. If I would rather not eat out five nights a week, I need to plan my menus out more carefully. If I want to have a successful school year, I need to plan out what we need to get done each day and tackle it with gusto!

This coming from a self-proclaimed unorganized-lazy-perfectionist. You know, I am working on some things in my life that just frankly need to be changed. God will bless my efforts, even when they may seem to fail.

I plan on it.

September 8, 2009

Practical Jokes…

My father-in-law has always been tough to pull a prank on. That is until I came along. I love him to death and have been one of a very few that have been able to prank the man and still live to tell about it…..I mean gloat about it…..

So, a few years back he had stopped by our house after work to say hi. Well, for whatever reason, I really cannot remember if I even had one, I proceded to tell him that our KFC had experienced a fire in their building that day and they may not be operating for business. I remember now, mom-in-law was out of town, and when she is out of town he treats himself to KFC, one of his favorite places to eat. Don’t mess with the man’s KFC. Anyway, I had him so convinced that he grabbed the phone book, picked up the phone and called them to see if they were open. I don’t know how I was able to keep a straight face, but I did. Once he got off the phone, I just laughed and laughed and he I think, was quite relieved. I even got him a fake plastic bucket of chicken one time for his birthday, complete with fake biscuit, cole slaw and potatoes. Walmart had one of those kids’ sets that had the KFC logo and everything.

So, for whatever reason I had decided it was about time for another prank on poor Kenneth. This time had to top the last, no doubt. So, I get online and find the KFC logo and create a letter in Word complete with a bright red border . I printed an envelope with the logo on it as well and mailed it to Greenville.  By the way, the 800-number on the letter is a real number, but not for KFC-it will get you in touch with the National Council on Aging.

August 13, 2009

KFC Corporation

P.O. Box 725489

Atlanta, GA 31139

(800) 222-2225

Mr. Kenneth Deaton,

We at KFC Corporation wish to express our appreciation for your continued support through the years. However, it has been brought to the attention of our corporate office that you have been frequenting our Greenville, Texas establishment much too often for a man in your age demographic, 45-60 year olds. At KFC we are committed to providing a variety of healthier options, such as our Roasted Caesar Salad and the Oven Roasted Twister Wrap to satisfy a hungry man’s appetite.

As partners in your health, we are making a decision that will, essentially, keep you a healthy man for many years to come. Regretfully, we must prohibit you from eating at the Greenville, Texas location for the period of one year. The effective date is September 1, 2009, and you will not be able to patron this location until September 1, 2010.

We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause. We feel it is in the best interest of you, our most valuable patron. Please contact us at (800)-222-2225 if you have any questions regarding this matter and one of our friendly customer service associates will be glad to assist you.

Sincerely,

Pat M., VP Consumer Affairs, KFC Corp.

We had quite the laugh over this one, and thankfully so did he.  I will be watching my back though…….